Why Purim Is the Most Underrated Jewish Holiday

When you think of Jewish holidays, which ones come to mind first? Probably Passover, with its grand Seder table, or Hanukkah, with its glowing menorah and latkes. But what about Purim?

For many, Purim is just a day for kids to dress up and eat too many Hamantaschen cookies. But if you look a little deeper, you’ll see that Purim is one of the most profound and meaningful Jewish holidays—a day filled with joy, community, and some of the most powerful lessons Judaism has to offer.

Yet, for some reason, Purim doesn’t always get the recognition it deserves. So, let’s change that. Let’s talk about why Purim should be at the top of your list of favorite Jewish holidays.

The Story of Purim: A Lesson in Hidden Miracles

Every Jewish holiday has a story. But Purim’s story is different. Unlike the miracles of Passover (splitting of the sea) or Hanukkah (oil lasting eight days), Purim’s miracles are hidden—woven into the twists and turns of the Megillat Esther, waiting to be uncovered.

The story begins in ancient Persia, where the wicked Haman convinces King Achashverosh to destroy the Jewish people. What Haman doesn’t know is that Queen Esther, the king’s new wife, is Jewish herself. With the guidance of her cousin Mordechai, Esther bravely reveals her identity and saves the Jewish people from destruction.

It’s an incredible tale of courage, faith, and resilience. But what makes it unique is what’s missing.

Did you know that G-d’s name is never mentioned once in the entire Megillah? That’s right—not a single time. It’s as if G-d is completely absent from the story. But He isn’t.

Instead, His presence is hidden within seemingly ordinary events—a queen making a bold decision, a king having a sleepless night, a villain meeting an ironic downfall. This is one of Purim’s greatest lessons: Even when we don’t see it, G-d is always working behind the scenes.

And isn’t that how life feels sometimes? We don’t always get big, obvious miracles. Sometimes, things just work out in ways we don’t expect—and that, too, is divine.

Costumes, Laughter, and Community: The Joy of Purim

If you’ve ever been to a Purim celebration, you know that it’s unlike any other Jewish holiday.

For one day a year, synagogues transform into party halls. People walk in wearing everything from biblical costumes to superhero capes, kids run around with Graggers (noisemakers), and everyone—yes, even the most serious adults—joins in on the fun.

But have you ever wondered why we wear costumes on Purim?

It’s not just about having a good time (although that’s certainly a big part of it!). The costumes represent the theme of hidden identity. Just as Esther concealed her Jewishness until the right moment, and just as G-d’s presence was hidden in the story, we wear masks and costumes to remind ourselves that things are not always as they seem.

And in a way, isn’t life like that? We all have different “masks” we wear—at work, with friends, even in our own families. But Purim reminds us to embrace who we really are and to recognize that even when we don’t see it, there’s a deeper plan at play.

And let’s be honest—who doesn’t love an excuse to dress up and have fun?

The Heart of Purim: Giving, Sharing, and Spreading Joy

While Purim is definitely a fun holiday, it’s not just about celebrating—it’s also about giving.

One of the most beautiful aspects of Purim is its emphasis on kindness and community. Unlike other holidays that focus on personal reflection, Purim encourages us to reach out and share our joy with others.

There are three special mitzvot (commandments) that define Purim:

1. Mishloach Manot – Giving small gift baskets filled with food and treats to friends and family.

2. Matanot La’evyonim – Donating money or food to those in need, ensuring that everyone can celebrate Purim.

3. The Purim Feast (Seudah) – A festive meal filled with laughter, gratitude, and of course, plenty of Hamantaschen.

This focus on giving and community is what makes Purim so unique. It’s not just about what we get from the holiday, but what we give to others.

And really, isn’t that what Jewish life is all about? Coming together, supporting each other, and celebrating our shared history with joy?

Purim Reminds Us to Celebrate Life

There’s a reason Purim is considered the happiest day of the Jewish year. It’s a day that encourages us to let go of our worries, embrace joy, and celebrate the fact that we are here.

But more than that, Purim teaches us a powerful lesson:

Even in the darkest moments, there is light. Even in the most challenging times, miracles can happen.

Think about it: The Jews in Persia thought all hope was lost. But behind the scenes, a young woman named Esther was quietly working to change history.

And maybe that’s the biggest takeaway of all. Sometimes, we feel like we’re just one person, like our actions don’t really matter. But Purim reminds us that even one person can make a difference.

Just like Esther.

Let’s Give Purim the Celebration It Deserves

Purim may not be as widely celebrated as Passover or Hanukkah, but it should be.

It has everything:
🎭 A powerful story about bravery and resilience.
🥧 Delicious food (seriously, who can say no to Hamantaschen?).
🎁 A focus on kindness, giving, and community.
🎉 A chance to let loose and celebrate life.

So this year, let’s give Purim the attention it deserves. Let’s dress up, share laughter, give to others, and celebrate the fact that, against all odds, we are still here.

Because that’s what Purim is really about: The joy of survival, the power of unity, and the hidden miracles in everyday life.